Billy Jean Is Not My Number!

Billy Jean Is Not My Number!

By:  Lori T. Williams, Owner/Managing Attorney of Your Legal Resource, PLLC

My  11 year old was belting out the above lyrics on his way to school today.  Of course I corrected him, but then wondered, “do Rock Stars really care if you get their lyrics right; or are they just happy you are still singing any form of them after 20 years?” I bet Michael Jackson never imagined the next generation would be singing those lyrics, or the correct lyrics (Billy Jean is Not my Lover), so many years after he wrote them.

This morning’s incident reminded me of when my oldest son was six and insisted that Chumbawumba was singing “I get no town!”, instead of the correct lyrics: “I get knocked down.”  No amount of logic would convince my son that he misunderstood the lyrics.  Not even the very next line in the song, “but I get up again.”  Who gets up again if they get no town?  It makes no sense.  But if you get knocked down, you get up again.

I don’t know if it’s only my family that has a hearing problem, or should I say a comprehension problem, or if we’re all a little “tone deaf” to the intended meaning of words sometimes.  I have a friend whose business is TheWriteConcept.com and her tag line is “We move minds, generate sales, and drive results with words that matter.”  I thought that was clever, AND spot on!  She artfully selects just the right words in her business communications, and she beautifully creates logos and other visuals to impact the reader so they remember what she has written and/or designed.

Words do matter, in every context, I believe.  From personal relationships, to business communications, to legal contracts.  We should spend much more time artfully crafting our words so that they are remembered and understood.  In our fast paced society, we tend to scan and spew information.  Let’s slow down a bit and make sure our intended message is being heard and understood.  Can you imagine  someone repeating, or singing, your words 20 years from now?

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Lori T. Williams is a 25 year attorney based in Birmingham, MI.  As owner of a legal referral business called Your Legal Resource, PLLC, Lori personally assists individuals and small businesses in need of legal advice or representation in Metro Detroit by connecting them with the right legal specialist to meet their needs. Click here for a pdf of legal referral services. 

Through group training and events, Lori also focuses on referral marketing strategies for attorneys and other professionals. For more information about Lori or Your Legal Resource, visit www.bestlegalresource.com.  For networking events, training programs, and workshop information, visit: www.bestlegalresource.com/events.

 

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